Can we really be objective…

If you have ever had to make a difficult decision, you’ll probably empathise with me on this post.

We have all been there when we have a major decision to make, decisions can be difficult, especially when you are trying to weigh up two equally exciting opportunities. I find that these are the hardest decisions because both seem good choices, but yet you need to think clearly about both options to make the best decision.

I started to consider how can we as human beings make an ‘objective’ decision. After much searching and researching online, I came to the conclusion that it is impossible to give an objective opinion or decision on anything, our individual subjectivity is the reason we cannot develop objectivity.

When faced with difficult choices, which can be good as well as bad, I find the following helps me…

- Which will I enjoy the most?

- Which is better for me?

- Which offers the best in the longer term?

- What is the best strategically for me?

- What impact will it have on other areas of my life?

Have you been faced with a difficult decision good or bad? Tell me how you made your choice…. Comment here

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Guest Post at The BIGBible

Last week I did a Guest post at BIGBible. The BIGBible project describes itself as

This website seeks to draw people into deeper engagement with the Bible, especially, but not exclusively, through the use of social media.  We will work with partners to achieve this aim.

The title of my blog is “Has Christianity been branded as irrelevant” please check it out.

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Meet Dr Bex Lewis….a speaker @ #Digimanc

Dr Bex Lewis will be speaking at #Digimanc in Manchester, 25th November (only £25, come along and connect!)…

Who is Dr Bex Lewis?

I am a ‘digital resident’ (very comfortable in the digital world), and a polymath, which means that I have multiple interests, so have to look for lots of different opportunities to dive into.  I have a background in historical communications – and proudly claim that I wrote the original history for the Keep Calm and Carry On poster, as part of my PhD ‘British Home Front Propaganda Posters of the Second World War’, completed 2004 at the University of Winchester, where I’d done her first degree in History with Education Studies.

I’m an enthusiastic traveller, and spent 7 months travelling around the world (Asia, Australasia, South America), before working a summer season as a Tour Leader with Oak Hall Expeditions in 2007/8.

I have been deeply inspired by the LICC, and undertook their LICC Toolbox course, and love Mark Greene’s concept of ‘Life’s a peach, not an orange’ (Google it, it makes great sense)… and the need to be 24/7 Christians, in whatever space you engage with… to which I would add, online or offline.

What’s your experience in the digital world?

I am a portfolio worker with over 14 years of experience in the digital environment, having built my first website in 1997, publishing straight from Word, using materials from my embryonic PhD to provide content. In 2001 I first engage with web accessibility and usability projects, and always believe that ‘content is king’… the design needs to help the content to work, rather than overwhelming it. I am far more interested in people/ communication/ popular culture than programming, and therefore was delighted when social media took off!

Where do you work?

I am the Director of ‘Digital Fingerprint’, a social media consultancy, whose Christian clients include the Church of England, Arab World Media, 12Baskets, and Syzygy Missions. Over the past couple of years I have spoken at an increasing number of events… outside of the academic conference circle! I’ve found connecting with people so much more interesting, as connections have often been made before events via Twitter (sometimes Facebook, but I usually save that until I at least vaguely know someone), and therefore it’s easy to connect face-to-face and continue conversations we’ve already been having online.

I am a member of the CODEC team, employed half-time by St John’s College (University of Durham) as the “Blended Learning Project Manager” for The Big Bible Project.  I am passionate about helping Christians be a positive presence in the digital world. In July 2011, I finished reading the Bible from cover to cover for the first time (took 3 years)… and now enjoy a variety of Bible apps to engage! I’m also about to become an internship mentor for Damaris, for whom I used to write cultural reviews.

I also work half-time at the University of Winchester, as a ‘Technology Enhanced Learning Fellow’ (finding tools for teaching using an appropriate mix of technology and face-to-face) with Associate Lectureships in Media Studies (particularly digital literacy) and History, alongside funded projects in student-skills and change management. I recently gained my Postgraduate Certificate in Learning and Teaching and am in the process of becoming a Fellow of the Higher Education Teaching Academy.

Have you ever been to Manchester?

Yes! I lived there for nearly two years, as I had a post at the University of Manchester as ‘Interdisciplinary Research Fellow’, from which I took voluntary redundancy (and went travelling!), but I’ve retained both a love for the city, and several friends there! I’m looking forward to a weekend there after #Digimanc!

Why are you so passionate about getting Christians online?

Because we need to be where the people are! There are over 800 million active users of Facebook, over 400 million users of Twitter (of which about 200 million are highly active and influential), over 640 million users of Skype, who knows how many blogs… and if we search for ‘Bible’ on Google, there’s a huge number of negative results appear (some may be fundamentalist Christians, so we need more Christians with grace to interact with the space)… so we need more positive content! As Richard Chartres, Bishop of London, said at the Christian New Media Awards this year “to all those who are serious about Christian mission. This is where the Church porch is now. It’s not so much those fly blown papers on the wall, the Church porch is now on your website.”

Tony Morgan also agrees in ‘Killing Cockroaches’, that a good church website is crucial. Most people check websites before choosing where to go these days, and the church is now competing for attention with the cinema, the bowling alley, the shopping mall. If people know they want to go to church, how are they going to know if they are going to want to come to your church, how are you going to get them past any fears that they have? Will the experience when they arrive match up to their expectations?

We live in an interactive age, not a broadcast age, so we need to think about how we engage people with the life-enhancing message that we have to share … whether that is online, or whether offline church practices also need a reconsideration… and can online tools allow those conversations to take place?

How can I contact you:

You can find Bex on lots of social media sites: Email ; Twitter ; Blog; Facebook; Academia.Edu; LinkedIn; SlideshareGoogle +;  AudiobooFlickr; Digg;DeliciousYouTube; Entries on BigBible but also come and meet me face-to-face at events!

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Lets be real for a moment.

Sometimes being a Christian can be so annoying! There are times when you want to say what you think, give people a piece of your mind and generally lose it with someone who is getting on your nerves. Ever been there?

Of course you haven’t you are spiritual, you would never feel like that would you? One of the biggest mistakes we can make in life, is to pretend to be something we are not, we can put on a cloak of self-righteousness, where we pretend to be more ‘holy’ than we actually are or say the right thing to prove we are spiritual.

Life is hard, life is tough and the honesty and openess with one another should not be something to be feared, but something to be embraced. Pretending just screws people up, it ruins peoples mental wellbeing and really makes it hard for people to hear God.

Pretending leads us all into danger, a place where we cannot be accountable to others, where we cannot share our struggles and ultimately where we live a lie. The depth of our walk with God is not measured by our own works or outward appearance, our depth of spirituality is measured by our walk with God, how honest we are with Him and how we trust Him.

I am not advocating that we can all do and say whatever we like, what I am saying is that as a community of faith, what makes us really attractive to others, is our acceptance of people despite their flaws and failings, we love the person, despite the things they do wrong.

This is common sense stuff, but we don’t see it working in real life do we? I can remember God challenging me about something, I was complaining to Him about someone who has hurt me, I wanted justice, then quietly, God said to me “shall I give you justice too?”

Grace is gift given despite our weakness, lets be real for a moment… we are all a work of grace, never forget it.

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I’m recruiting l Do you like the idea of a fast paced media life?

The last few months have been so hectic travelling and working for so many churches and ministries. I feel I now need to make the investment into a member of staff supporting me in my work help churches and ministries to grow.

Here’s what I am looking for….

Highly organised, efficient team player with a passion for media. 

Duties would involve working on the following

  • Facebook / Twitter
  • Email ‘ Telephone
  • Liaising with clients
  • Managing a diary
  • Administration
  • Limited Media Production (or more for right person)
There would be a creative / media / marketing element to the job also, but this is something which could develop over time. The most important thing for now is highly organised and motivated.
Currently this is a part time post and needs to be Manchester based as my office is in the area, the work may involve some travelling within the UK. Full-time role likely as the work expands. This would suit an aspiring marketing / media profesisonal with good office / administration skills.
The successful candidate would need to be comfortable working in a Christian environment and being able liaise with people who uphold Christian values and beliefs
For more details, please contact me on info@deanseddon.co.uk
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Amazing how enabling social networking can be

I am still somewhat in awe of the speed that this event was created. #DigiManc was started as a conversation between myself and James Poulter and then Bex Lewis joined us both minutes later. This event was conceived just 3 days ago and already has generated massive interest and excitement among social media / new media people across the boundaries of denominations.

If you would like to know more about this event you can visit its new 24 hour old website here

We will tell the full story on the day of how a significant christian event was put together in just 72 hours. We’ll also bring the evidence. This speed has cemented by faith in facebook as a collaborative planning platform.

This event is for anyone who is wanting to raise their game in social media, whether that is for a business, church or ministry. Some of the best minds will be there and the best news is that despite its action packed sessions, there will be social networking time where you can get face to face with the speakers and network.

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#DigiManc l The church in the social media age

I am so excited to tell you about an awesome event that is happening in November, #DigiManc. #DigiManc is an incredible one day summit style event looking at how Christians and Churches can embrace social meda (and do it well).

The event has received huge support from UCB, Tearfund and YouVersion as well as many others who have helped with the creative input.

I would really like to encourage you to book in for the day, we have some excellent speakers (including me) including, James Poulter, Bex Lewis, Jay Blake, Jay Butcher and more…

If you would like to book, you can get your ticket using eventbrite (opens new window).

You can also download the promotional flyer here

You can also book the old fashioned by by sending a cheque for £25 per delegate to…

Community Life, 20 Upper George St, Tyldesley, M29 8HQ

I will post more about this later, but get excited and get booked in

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Friends…. I’ll be there for you…. part 2

We have a good collection of Friends DVD’s at home and I enjoy watching some of the episodes over and over. The comedy dynamic of the group of actors is so good that scenes which you have watched over and over are just as funny now as they were back then.

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Big Decisions….Sacred Cows….Lemons……Elephants in the room.

Have you ever heard the saying ‘Elephant in the room’ or ‘sacred cow’ we’ve all got them, but we all deny they exist. They parts of us we don’t want to change or refuse to change. They are ideas, methods or thought patterns that are deeply embedded.

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Bill Hybels l somethings are just not working

Very thought provoking video from Bill Hybels….

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